once more up in sacramento telebinging with a buddy. last night went out to a club opening. a new fetish/bdsm thingy. it was nice n fun. xmas is coming closer n closer. sneaky-like even didn't even realize how the dec days creep by. bummed i missed out on madmaxtattoo  's wedding on wed. i would have flown back to london from amsterdam for it. well, that ticket is now an EDI to AMS flight in April. oh, i will be in Tampa in August for FetishCon 2010 as a lecturer. and I am also booked for Wasteland in Amsterdam for their April 17th event. ok. back to hiding out.

Seeing as I missed a couple of the larger EU events, I decided to stumble over to the LFS forums to see what people are saying.

Last week i was supposed to be in Amsterdam performing at Clinic and the Thursday in Paris at Demonia.
Well that same weekend the Skin Two Rubberball also was taking place.

I think it might be the last -

here's one of the posts I found on the LondonFetishScene board (edited for easier consumption & over use of elipses):


I've an idea, let me float it to the forum.
I'm having a little soiree - very, very, exclusive.
If anyone would like to visit a secret establishment (my house which is over three stories with very narrow staircases), please send me between fifty and seventy five pounds for the privilage.
It will run a little like this: Upon arrival you will be expected to queue for fifteen minutes and then huddle like emporer penguins in an attempt to shed your outer garments into a selubrious assemblage which I shall name... erm, a pile! I will charge you £2 for charm.
A few will be privileged to a shot of punch; the others less fortunate, well diddums.
Now, please wander and take in the lavish decor which is all the rage and will be tomorrows must have look....we shall call it ...erm: 'Sparseness!'
Further listen to the new wave in clubbing - begone 'garage, rave, techno, trance' - behold 'silence' is the new sound! No, not your thing? oh ok pop to the basement I think theres a wireless there but please keep the noise down I do have neighbours you know!
Fancy a tipple? theres a tap there with H2O its the new 'free'..that will be a 'shush £5' please.
Oh, sorry were you expecting to engage in fetish activity? Well do you have a special blue smarty? unlucky you....toodle-loo
Now I seem to have misplaced your cloakroom ticket on your garment. Oh sorry what do you mean that you dressed scantilly in latex have managed to retain yours. Ok, I have an idea pop around here and rifle through everyones personel property prior to departure in a vain attempt to collect your coat. Oh and remember: this is something special, very special!

You may not realise it but me and you have just had intercourse or more bluntly ..I've F C U K ed you!

Well if nothing else at least we can say we were there when the 'King' died...expensive privilege but....'The King is dead, long live the King!'

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To clarify some things, in order to enter the couples room, one had to be in possession of a glass pebble of sorts. No one exactly knew how to get one, only that some people were given the token and some were not. Oh yes, one had to impress the staff.

Drinks including beer, wine, & water were sold at £5 but due to licensing issues (the lack of one), people that bought drinks were told to say the drink was free in case asked by permit checkers.

There were other issues too apparently. Not to mention the venue owner Edward Davenport (known for throwing parties for minors and swindling Sierra Leone out of their London embassy) has been quite popular in the news - even prior to the event: Check out:

Edward Davenport: The scandalous world of Britain’s most sociable socialite (the independent)

Playboy 'lord' accused of conning stars out of £12million (daily mail)

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This was the 2nd year in a row that i've actually missed attending the Skin Two Rubberball and the first time I was actually nearby in Europe but going to another event. I kind of lost the taste for them after they shifted to the SEone venue but I really wanted to attend those and try and support what was once a bastion of fetish (both fashion and stranger rubber-based kinks) even though the magazine was obviously faltering despite last gasp attempts to resurrect itself in various forms.

I suppose this will be the last RubberBall and I'm not sure I like the idea. I kind of wish that it stopped a few years ago - instead of a giant event at a club like SEone, where most party-goers have already experienced the Torture Garden events, I think being able to keep the memory of the Hammersmith Palais would have more of a positive reminder of enjoyable times well spent for many others, not just myself.
I remember the first time I went and it was so fantastic. I really felt like it was like some kind of magical costume ball where people made an incredible amount of effort to transform themselves into something truly imaginative and exotic. oh well...

Fetish parties will continue to take place all over the world as different promoters try their hand at putting on such events. It's funny how so many newbies think that it's an easy venture and yet they really know nothing about it besides asking a couple of their friends to perform and maybe throw in a DJ that will play the latest "alt" tunes. Well, hopefully they will also learn that skimping on production will be noticed by the guests and if the one-time largest fetish event of the year can be toppled, well, all the other pawns can be swiped away just as easily.

Hmm, seemed to have gotten slightly off-topic & ranty there. Oh well. Kind of funny - or fitting - to see so many negative review on the internet about the S2 ball. Not that the internet is the sole cause of the collapse of the ball, but it is taking a part - just as it did with the fall of the magazine (well, not solely, but it helped).

I took a break from FetishCon in 2009 but I'll be back again for 2010!

This time I'll be lecturing too!

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All sorts of things n stuff from the past few weeks

2009 November 18 - San Francisco
Bondage A GoGo - hot dogs served!

2009 November 25 - San Francisco

December usually means parties n such for companies n whatnot. This evening I'm headed up to San Francisco for the Kink.com party.
sokkmonkey convinced me i wanted to go with him and vienna_la_rouge even though driving up to SF 2 nights in a row is not really that exciting for me. Luckily he's driving tonight.

It'll be nice to see friends I used to see more often and worked with at a time before all the hard stuff started happening in bondage/fetish.
I'm so not wearing latex though! It's too cold out and there's fog n everything!

Went out last night too. Local cops were looking for someone in an old mercedes like mine so they were looking at me when I pulled up to the front. Young new guy too. heh. It was nice to see Off. Duane again after a long period of time. Oh, and last week some loonie pulled a gun out at the bartenders at the Nuthouse too. What a fucktard.

Tomorrow evening in SF is steendaddy 's gallery show at the Center for Sex & Culture. I'll be heading up to that one although I'm not sure about wearing latex. I might though. I guess it depends on how I feel but I can always wear my Atsuko or NPNG trousers.

OK. Time to hurry it up with the face painting for tonight.
oh and I still have to post about the fet ball thingy from last week too. cak!

ooh a neat contest!

well, more of a giveaway (you just have to join/log-in and be picked.

tell santa what you want, right?

http://fetlife.com/sit_on_santas_lap

OK.
This year is just about coming to a close - yes, there are a couple of weeks left, but as far as my travel schedule, I doubt there are going to be any sort of grand plans requiring my passport.

A summary then:

I spent quite a bit of time in California, well, at least during the summer months of Jun/Jul/Aug. I ended up enjoying the time though, instead of being restless and wanting to jump on a plane. I spent a little bit of time enjoying local cities, family, and friends. I also took a solo drive up to Eureka for work but turned it into a very leisurely trip back where I learned how to appreciate California. I'm going to be stuck in the US until the end of March and hopefully I can get past my regrets and irritation of having to cancel my Dec/Jan trip to Europe. Plus, I can use the time and get a new passport sorted out since my current one is pretty much out of pages.

This year was good for some firsts. All cities/countries within the EU unlike the year before where I hit Oceania/Asia.

After an early morning flight from Dusseldorf, I landed for the first time in Riga, Latvia and instead of flying, I think I chose well in deciding to take the coach into Tallinn, Estonia. I got to see a bit of both countries though not much of Riga at all. I'll have to find a reason to go back. I really did like Tallinn a lot and like Riga, I'd love to head back there again.

Ah, Lisbon! Wow! I know I will be back. The weather was hot but the Atlantic was a bit cold but with a good suit totally enjoyable! I definitely prefer diving in tropical warm water, but I'll take anything really! The food was awesome too. I could totally get fat there - well, I probably did.

Edinburgh. I think I like that city more than London. Maybe I need to spend more time there to decide for reals but so far, each time I've been able to walk around the city, I just feel quite comfortable. Oh, and I got to visit Glasgow too for just a day on my second visit to EDI. I only wish the weather got so much warmer!

Finally, Lyon. I spent a year of school in the south of France so I was particularly excited to have the opportunity to visit a different party of France. Unfortunately, I didn't find the time to make the journey to Arles. I really wanted to eat at Bigouden Blues on Rue Gambetta (don't know why I can remember that info still!) because I often had crepes there with pastis. I hear the place is closed though. In any case, I'm supposed to be blogging about Lyon! So yeah. WOW. food, food, food! I had so much food (and it didn't help that Valentina and Teo were visiting from Bologna too!) So much foie gras was consumed, and giant blue steaks. And I also got to visit La Demeure du Chaos which also contained the very impressive office and record stacks of ArtPrice.com

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That's it for the new places. Not too bad all things considered.
oh, and there was another first this year as well.
I ended up having to cancel an EU trip due to last minute photographer cancellations which in the end meant canceling a performance booking that I had confirmed over 09 months prior. That felt a bit horrible, but I suppose after years of being at this job, it's bound to happen. (The first illness last minute cancellation was Torture Garden in London a few years ago, and the first cancellation due to flight fiasco was Melbourne last year).



2009 travel dates:

Dec 17-Jan 12 San Francisco

Jan 25-Feb 10 Vienna
Feb 10-17 London

Feb 17-23 Atlanta
Feb 23-Mar 02 New York
Mar 02-25 San Francisco

Mar 26-Apr 01 London
Apr 01-09 Amsterdam, NL
Apr 09-15 Essen, DE
Apr 15-21 Tallinn, EE
Apr 21-27 Bologna, IT
Apr 27-May 06 Vienna
May 06-11 Paris
May 11-18 London
May 18-27 Lisbon, PT
May 27-Jun 3 Berlin
Jun 03-05 Paris
Jun 05-08 Edinburgh
Jun 08-14 London

Jun 15-Sep 16 San Francisco

Sep 16-24 London, UK
Sep 24-30 Lyon, FR
Oct 01-05 London, UK
Oct 05-13 Edinburgh/Glasgow, UK
Oct 13-19 Bologna, IT
Oct 19-28 Vienna, AT
Oct 29-Nov 03 London, UK

Nov 03-10 Atlanta, GA
Nov 10- San Francisco, CA